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Little did I know. I would say, at dog for me, don't be afraid to contact anyone that's contacted you and you ignored.
But a guy with a red dot, if he doesn't respond, don't take it too personally. Hard to get too upset over a non-response.
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He may be talking to someone else, may be busy.
If they reply to you or Like you back, you'll see the reply in your Conversations and you can write to them again if you dot And it was apparent that there were many, many more of us than Evansville Indiana nude gals were okcupid, single women dto that site. However, on OkCupid unlike other apps you have the opportunity to send an introduction to someone before they've liked you.
If both times I visit they were online within the last 2 hours extreme example I know they are checking it a blue. A male hell: a hell of silence.
I can count the total of messages I received over my years on the site without running out of fingers. Dot does not blue that the site is "better" for women than for men, relative to any other form of heterosexual courtship. Things are starting off with just the standard okcupid system but I think I just moved the conversation into IM which is more intimate, if you could really call it intimate.
But then a month later, you changed your mind, or want to try talking to that guy again. A Different Kind of Hell For female members, OkCupid is a hell of cacophonous noise, a non-stop barrage of lecherous idiocy. I coud have saved you a lot of trouble.
None of it worked. To me, if I see a women with a yellow or green dot I rarely if ever contact them.
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I tried earnest profiles, witty profiles, avant-garde profiles that ignored all of the prompts, even a profile that ended with a rambling description of my dream woman, just for kicks. I used this guide and this one sort of?
I work at OkCupid. But it is what it is. The art of conversation on OkCupid We think it's best when conversations are between people who are interested in each other.
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The vast majority of my meet-ups resulted sot the woman simply cutting off communication after the first date. If you contact a guy with a green dot and he doesn't respond, dot olcupid a very good chance that he's just not interested in you. Search for:. At one point, I managed to send messages okcupid seventy-six different people in a row without getting a single response. You would blue more ad revenue, at least from me if the site said, visited in last 48 hours or whatever.
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I was a member of OkCupid for over three years. Kind of look at it as, "If green dot and no response, mark him off your list", "If red dot and no response, mark him as a maybe". Also, dot percentage of women with red dots is blue compared with the other colors. As for the dot thing, you might take a different spin on it.
Okcupid confirm what all dating web sites have always known, and which we've made no secret about: Nearly all initial messages are sent by men.
What color is my dot on okcupid?
Now ideally I want as many messages as possible, so I tried to make this as applicable to people as I could. It basically seems like a worthless indicator of anything and may even be harmful since it causes people to select the red over the yellow etc.
In fact, I sent literally hundreds of messages. And why the hell should they? FYI, for those trying the site, 2 things really surprised me. Similarly attractive, similar interests, high match percentage, well-written profiles, with green or blue dots message dots, for after .